U Can’t Be Serious…

 

Now I’m not the most educated person when it comes to black history, but damn!!! Did I laugh? Yes. But it’s really kind of sad….

BEWARE!!!

 

This shit right here is real!!! LMAO

Lots of Bacon

I hate the fact that it hurts to care… I wish that I never knew Love & that she never was there.-Existent in my past, the cause of darkness is a flare.-An old flame that is distanced without a degree of warmth to spare… I call out but never heard, yet I follow like sheep. & I listen for my name, but it’s the same shame,-not a peep. Not a smidget, not an inkling, nor a speck, or an ounce… & my self-esteem level is even less than that amount… I thought I was an adult but I either spazz-out or pout… Being an overgrown child, that’s all that I’m about………………….

-PV-

Why It’ll Never Work…

So I’ve been doin some thinkin and I’ve come up with my own reason on why relationships these days don’t work out.  Some ppl say it’s cuz ppl move too fast, or they blame everybody else for reason they shit didn’t work out, but the real reason is YOU! YOU being ppl in general are too fuckin selfish. what do I mean by that? Yall get into relationships with the mindset that the other person is supposed to be doin somethin for u. While this may be true, yes they should be doin for u, ask yourself what are u doin for them.  That other person can’t make u happy or none of that other shit u claim u lookin 4 in “love.”

Relationships should be complimentary not supplementary( if u dont know what I mean grab a dictionary lol)  Ppl get so wrapped up in what the other isn’t doin that they lose sight of all the good shit and cause their own turmoil and conflict in their own relationship.

Another thing, which not to sound sexist, but in my opinion is mainly in females, yall judge the status or quality of your relationship based on other ppl whether its friends families or even celebs, which is just stoopid.  this aint no damn Disney movie.  This is real life!

There’s so so much more I want to say, but I’d rather not get into right now.  Bottom line instead of lookin at what the other person isn’t doin for u look and see if u are really being the type of person u’d want for them.  And lastly if u go thru life on concerned about urself, I can guarantee u’ll end up alone all by urself.

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I Know Her Voice Is Annoying But…..

While I rarely look at her videos because her voice is annoying to me, I found some humor in these 2.

Riddle Me This…

ok so my question is for this odd double standard that seems to be in effect. having “BFFs” of the opposite sex. So lets say ladies that yo man had a friend, a close friend that was a female.  can u honestly that u would trust that relationship? probably not because u would think that somethin is goin on. whether its u don’t trust the female, but more than likely u don’t trust yo man (probably because women think most if not all men are dogs). Yet if u had a close friend that was a male, u would tell us “calm down, he’s just my friend.”  So the question is how come u can have a “boy-friend” and we cant have a “girl-friend”? and if u think that all dudes are just tryin to smash, then what do u think ur “boy-friend” is hangin around for???  although they might not come out and say it, guess what! yup they want that butt!!! they might not actively pursue it right away, but they will give lil hints, whether it be lil sexual comments here and there or lil touches or “petting” as the old folks like to call it.  whether u believe me or not i can almost guarantee that if the butt was offered they would definitely take it! just some food for thought.

ATTENTION MEN AND WOMEN!!!

This is some powerful stuff right here for those in relationships or not. Check it out!!!

Make Up Ur Mind

Relationships can be a trip.  I tell ya man sometimes I just wanna scream out WHAT THE F@&K!!!  Things is this, once u decide that u wanna be with somebody or make an attempt to get at somebody, its probably not in ur best interest to keep all the other ppl u were “flirtin” with or whatever u wanna call it around.  Hell at least don’t do it on a venue like twitter or facebook where everybody and they mama can see it, cuz if they can see it guess who else can??? the person u call urself tryiin to get with (damn social networks messin up ppl pimpin lol).

Why am I even speakin on this? Good question. Its because this has happened to me. Wait did I say me? I meant someone I know….LMAO.  Soooo my homeboy had this girl, and they had they ups and downs, just as any relationship does. (If u in a relationship and yall never had a fight, yall dont really like each other) Anywho after some time they broke up. (she left his ass!!!) Needless to say he was heartbroken, he might’ve even cried like a lil beotch, who knows….Though he wanted to work things out she wasn’t havin it.  So as time moved on so did he, and guess what happened? Yup now she want a playa back! At least that what she claimed cuz all the while all her actions were the exact opposite of what she told homie.

Well turns out “Homie Dont Play That!”  Im not bout to tell yall what to do as far as whether or not to be committed to somebody, hell i could really care less. Dont get me wrong I’m not say go out and try to bump uglies with everybody, but if u gon try to run game on somebody, or maybe ur just undecided and still wanna play the field a lil bit, at least be a lil bit cleaner about how u go about doin it, cuz its gon be a doozy when the other person finds out.

Validity

Why females always gotta look for some form of validation? mainly when it comes to being in relationships. I dont know not one dude that was involved with a chick and asked her “what are we?” or looked for an official title to define what they had. Nowadays especially with this facebook mess, ppl (females) cant wait to update they relationship status so their friends and whole world can know that they’re in a relationship, or that its complicated, or wait now im single, no now im back in a relationship. Most dudes i kno just go with it and what happens happens. hell, a lot of times we don’t even know yall our “girlfriend” until yall tell us lol. thats not to say that we out bumpin uglies with erbody, but we dont need the title to validate us. I know sometimes yall try to hit us with “u just afraid of commitment” and it may be true sometimes, but sometimes, and i say this from experience, things could be goin well and once it becomes “official” shit gets all kinds of fucked up. So to make things easier i’m goin to list a few ways so ladies can see what direction you relationship is goin if there is no official title yet.

1. If he only hits u up on random occasions and just to come to the house, yall just fuckin.

2. If yall talk regularly, and yall go out, and not because u made him, but he offered (meanin he’s ok with ppl seein u with him in public) he likes u and things could be goin somehwere. (dont fuck it up by addin too much pressure)

3. If he cuts down on his Call of Duty playin to talk to or spend time with you, girl thats love right there!!!